When you call the Men’s Referral Service: 

• you don't need to give your name or any other identifying details
• you will be treated with respect
• you will not be seen as a bad person for your behaviour 
• our telephone counsellors will do their utmost to ensure that you and the people affected by your behaviour can get all the help, support and safety you (and they) deserve 
• our telephone counsellor will provide you with details for the two men’s behaviour change groups closest to where you live, so that you can contact them to take your next steps.