We focus on supporting and encouraging men to do something about their behaviour.

When you call the Men’s Referral Service, the telephone counsellor will offer you opportunities to talk about: 

• what is happening in your life right now
• your past actions
• your hopes for now and for the future 
• what information and support you need

The telephone counsellor will focus a lot on your behaviour and how it could change. Because it is important for men to take responsibility for their actions, the telephone counsellor will respectfully point out any times that you try to blame your partner, alcohol or anything else for your behaviour.